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Who hurt Janet?
Janet is a 20-year young woman who lives in a camp for internally displaced people outside a town
in a West African country. Janet fled her home with her family six months ago when her village was
aected by ongoing armed conflict. She is afraid the conflict will force her to move again. The camp
where Janet lives now is very crowded, and she lives in a tent with two families. Janet and her
family are completely dependent on food assistance and other services provided by humanitarian
organizations. She understands that services are planned with government ocials and community
leaders, almost all of whom are men. There are not yet any health or psychosocial support services
for survivors of GBV. Menstrual hygiene materials have not been distributed. Since moving to the
camp, Janet has not had access to materials to manage her menstruation. She feels shy to dress
and use toilet facilities every day, because she has no privacy in the camp, but during her period
she is particularly shy. Yesterday, Janet started her period, so she walked to the outskirts of the
camp to change and wash herself in more privacy. There, two armed men grabbed her and raped
her. Janet returned to her home disheveled, bruised, and crying. Her mother understood what
happened to her and scolded her for leaving the safety of their home. She advised Janet not to tell
anyone about the rape, because there are no services, and she doesn’t want anyone to judge or
ridicule her daughter.
Why isn’t Ayesha safe?
Ayesha is a 40-year-old woman who lives in a small community that has been aected by insecurity
and draught. Her husband used to manage a small farm, but he has been unable to work for
the past two years. Ayesha, her husband, and their three children have become reliant on food
assistance, and they are registered as a family for this assistance. Ayesha also volunteers with an
NGO, and she earns a small stipend to help the family buy additional food and essential items,
but her husband takes this stipend, as is expected in their community where men control family
finances. Ayesha’s husband resents her for making money when he cannot. He has become
increasingly frustrated with his situation, and lately he has been spending all of Ayesha’s stipend
on alcohol. He comes home late some nights, drunk and angry. Since they married, her husband
has sometimes hit her, but lately the abuse has become very frequent and frightening. Last month,
Ayesha’s husband beat her so badly that her oldest son had to help her visit the health clinic the
next day. The doctor who treated her didn’t ask her any questions about her injuries, but the nurse
guessed what happened and said this was unfortunately normal. She said the best thing Ayesha
could do is to be more agreeable and avoid her husband’s anger. Ayeshsa is worried every day
that her husband might hurt her, or that he might turn his anger toward their children. She dreams
of living with her kids, away from her husband, but he holds their registration and money. She is
also afraid of losing custody of her kids to her husband. Her parents live in a nearby village, and
she asked if she could bring the kids to live with them, for at least a little while, but her parents
explained that they could not aord to repay the bridewealth they invested in her marriage. Anyway,
it would be a dishonor to their family if she separated from her husband. Ayesha also sought help
from a community leader in her village. He organized a mediation with Ayesha and her husband,
where he advised her husband to refrain from alcohol and abuse and advised Ayesha to try harder
to please her husband. After the mediation, Ayesha’s husband threatened her that if she ever
embarrassed him again by sharing their business with others, he would kill her.